Tuesday, October 04, 2011

Undies in A Bowl

Vivi's undies are in a bowl in the kitchen cupboard.  Grandma Gloria was in town and recognized the girls' need for new underpants and purchased some at the amazing Super Target.  They ended up in a bowl under the cupboard. Now every time a girl needs undies in this house they know where to look.  I think I'll always have to keep undies in the cupboard from now on.
These are our 3 kids.  The kids that I have been at a loss to describe.  The kids that I cannot get enough of. I breathe them in and they push away from me. It's a little creepy sometimes the way I smell them like I'm inhaling an intoxicating drug.  I'm creepy.  But that's okay I guess,  it's creepiness out of love.

Norah has started kindergarten now.  And like all of us she is still Norah. In kindergarten.  And I'm still Ann, as a mother.  We are all the same as we always were.  Little kindergarteners.  And yet... life wears us down into something more and keeps shaping us like a river rock... smoother and smoother all of the time. 

Maybe I could start this up again. This heartbreaking focus on love.  This break my heart I have to look away feeling that I've grown to have.  I think it's in a way a hardening on my part... a hardening to protect the tremendous tenderness of it.

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